Why I think it’s better to wait for your mate

I’ve learned that waiting until you’re older to have a relationship is not only wise but necessary. You don’t know what you want in your teens or early twenties. You’re exploring, you’re having fun. I feel that by the time most of us reach our late twenties/early thirties we have a better idea of who … More Why I think it’s better to wait for your mate

An Ode to Girls

In my experience, when you focus on yourself instead of on boys, your career flourishes, you flourish, and you learn. That doesn’t mean you can’t date boys along the way. By all means date, date assholes, learn from them but don’t ever stay stuck and don’t ever give up anything or sacrifice your career, morals, … More An Ode to Girls

Pro Choice or Pro Convenience? 64% of abortions are forced or coerced–usually by male partners or relatives

http://www.webmd.com/baby/news/20010320/number-1-cause-of-death-in-pregnant-women-murder After reading the novel, “Men Explain Things to Me”, by Rebecca Solnit which I found funny and sarcastic and yet so truthful and gut wrenching– I was surprised to learn about many things I had not known prior. I am not reserved in my opinions but I also always go by facts and evidence … More Pro Choice or Pro Convenience? 64% of abortions are forced or coerced–usually by male partners or relatives

“My Vagina is Already Vijazzled Enough”

  A woman’s appearance shouldn’t determine her worth in society, but apparently it does and that’s the first thing that people notice. This speech is empowering and definitely resonates. We place more value on a woman’s beauty than on her knowledge, wisdom, intellect, and choices. I hope this is enlightening and empowering for all of … More “My Vagina is Already Vijazzled Enough”

Fathers Not Getting Custody?

“Can I just debunk this fallacy once and for all by stating that fathers that actually SEEK CUSTODY of children get it 50 percent of the time? http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/11/17/more-fathers-getting-custody-in-divorce/?_r=0 However, most fathers in divorce cases don’t usually seek custody, and allow the mother to take custody of the kids lol. That’s not the mothers fault at … More Fathers Not Getting Custody?